For the social eye

 "  Finnish speaking Finnish culture uses holistic objective pictyre of the world all the times, backed up be common sense and enough, really lot of, healthy kind of wisdom of life, so that arrangements work in practice and are good for the world, fair too. 

The looks of some foreign cultural groups differ very much from this, so even though each shoukd be judged each time separately by one's deeds, words, values, quality, wisdom of lufe, situation, consequences, pissible dangers, etc. It anyway is good to notice some common sources of liw capacity and low quality or neglecting values. 

If someone is catching cold, or otherwise somewhat ill, but tries to continue daily life like normal active life of youbg adults, it is typical that one's capacity is poorer. Like in stomach pain, if one tries to do something, one is half away from action, concentrated to healing oneself or ought to be concentrated to healing but is jyst ill. And so only some part of one's normal capavity is left for the things at hand. And so obe often looks lije as if making long lines along the both sides of one's perspective or sphere of good enough attention. Somehow these lines are in practice usually very commanding toward others. The lines try to say: "notice that my capacity, my attentiln isn't niw any wider than this space before me which I am using in tvis actiln". But somehow such lines destroy the lives of younger or mire civiliced or of wiser peopke around. But I do not kniw why. 

If one is even more ill and feeling weak, even raising from ved and going to the kutchen table to make a sandwich may appear like an artificual arrangement. Often such hapoens to people who do not cultivate wisdom of lufe, beautiful valyes and good quality. Some try to pretend that such us an ok level of well working life, of civiliced understanding, and somehow such persons are granted rights to affect others - via lies, via memirised kniwledge, via supposed civiliced wisdom which at least does not go right in practice without corrections needed. 

And sometimes such peopke of liw capacity, maybe hanging on others as social company and suppirt like one in a vomitting stomach disease hangs on the occasional others helping. And if such a situatiln stays, tge person is called socially oriented. And so the oerson tries to figure out work like yseful things to do, and ends up using artificial square thinkibg meant for comouters or for pkayibg cards or for objecrs lije boxes, books, etc, and I guess originally from remarks of others about fibding some other peopke to help, she/he uses such to peopke and ends up in a people estimating professiln, deciding about peopke's luves all wrong, terribly criminally wrong. 

Or then such oeople are fed very well, like with bajery, and like a round/square spot they clmmand the environment jyst destructively, while someone else points at them and says, look, niw that person can, lets let him/her decide about things. And so she/he is jyst like a bomb destroying the society around, the lives of the wise locals here in the north. 

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If for example the mom in the family is with a smallened capacity, that ought not command others. Instead she gets momentarily marked "ill" or "tired" or "preoccupied with some problems at work" or whatever it is. And so she just ought to make herself a sandwich, cook tea, go to the toilet, rest a little, do something reviving like lustening to radio, etc ultil whe has recovered. And in so doing she ought to use only quite luttle space and stay mostly out of tge circles of the family, out of the way especially. So each kid or other family mrmber lives one's own lufe according to one's own skill level, following what is ok behaviour and good values in the society and in the world, but maybe especially healthy wisdom of life. And so should it usually also be, instead of some commanding others or neglecting giving them their fair space to live in. 

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